The Business Stuff No One In Business Ever Told Me

I don’t know about you, but when I started out in my own business (or even before that when I started in my first string of jobs after college), I knew very little.

Scratch that….I knew next to nothing.

Worse, I thought I was super-smart and knew all I ever needed to know.

So it took years for it even to occur to me that I didn’t know much and even more years to learn how to find, seek out and actually ask for (and/or pay for) the help I needed. (Gosh, that whole years and years thing makes me sound really old.)

When I started my own business in 2001 (after being laid off from what I thought was the best job I would ever have), I figured that I had all I needed to be wildly successful.

My ingredient list for a successful Copywriting Business was something like this:

  • Know how to write….check
  • I’ve earned money at some point in my life for writing….check
  • Have desk…check
  • Have phone….check
  • Know something about the Internet….check (this was 2001)

Ok…I was good to go!

Except…well…I wasn’t good to go.

Unfortunately….yea, you guessed it….while I had the “copywriting” part down somewhat, the whole “business”  part was still uncharted territory.

I’d never written a proposal or an agreement.

I’d never collected actual money myself for what I did (I’d collected a paycheck until that point).

I had no idea how to put a price tag or money amount on my time or services.

Business development? I really didn’t even know what that term meant.

And, of course, as a writer, I’d learned and told myself that I “wasn’t very good at sales.”

So I started to learn. Usually the hard way. And by “hard way,” I mean I got you-know-what over more times than I care to remember.

I made lots of mistakes.

Sometimes, I made the same mistake more than once.

Other times, I got lucky and figured stuff out sooner than later.

And pretty much every single time, I wished that I had someone who had already learned what I needed to know whom I could turn to and who could honestly, clearly and effectively tell me how to do stuff — and how not to do stuff.

I never found that person. Not back then. Today, I have some awesome mentors and peers who have answers to my every question. But back then….the pickings seemed slim.

So without really realizing what I was doing, as I built my sort-of business into a real business, I also began collecting information and building a case for what would become, I now know, my RealCopywritingBusiness program.

  • Forms, templates, agreements, checklists, articles — every thing I wrote, revised, tweaked and sometimes kind-of slaved over over the years, it all now makes sense.
  • All the times I detected a “red flag client,” or had to set a boundary and say “no” or explain my company payment policy (only after actually having one) — now I can pass that on.
  • All of the tips, techniques, advice and, yes, expertise I’ve gained/learned/absorbed on everything from how to build a team to how to deliver a final copy document to where the best referral sources are to what books are “musts” for my shelf — why would I ever want to or need to keep that all for myself?
  • And as I build a community of great copywriters who are also real business owners, I will, selfishly of course, have amazing referral opportunities as I send people seeking copywriters to those copywriters whom I know to be the best in the business.
If you are a copywriter (or a wanna-be) or a freelance writer (or a wanna-be) or a solo-anything or work-at-home anything, join us here.  (Questions? Not sure if the program is a good fit for you? Email me at RealCopywritingBusiness at gmail dot com or call me directly).
And while you are at it….think about these questions and let me know your answers :
  • What is the area of your business that gives you the most stress and trouble?
  • Why are you in the business you are in?
  • What is your monthly/yearly financial goal — how close are you to that goal?
  • What do you tell potential clients when they ask “Why should I hire you?”
  • What is missing from your business or your knowledge of how to run your business?
  • What has been your biggest mistake in business — and what did you learn from this mistake?
  • What frustrates the heck out of you the most, RIGHT NOW, in your business?

© 2010, Allison Nazarian. © 2010 Allison Nazarian Feel free to quote or reprint this blog post on your blog/website or elsewhere with proper attribution to Allison Nazarian and http://AllisonNazarian.com.

  • walterpaulbebirian
    first of all there are no set rules or regulations as to how business is acquired or how to sell whatever service that you have - it is more or less like having a blank canvas and placing whatever on there that you wish to - there are thousand and thousands of people who can tell you perhaps how they have done whatever they have done in their own business - but you will find that on both sides of the transaction - as the business owner on one side and as the customer on the other side - (*and this is a biggy) everyone is different - some people may like doing business with you in a certain way and others may dislike that and want to conduct business in another way - and then there are the differences that you will find when dealing with commercial business clients as opposed to dealing with the general public -

    But one thing that is sure to happen if you do your best - put effort into improving and never try to rush business to come to you - things will improve - and one most important thing to remember - when it comes to advertising - an important rule is - to stay in business long enough to be able to reap the rewards of the advertising money that you have invested -

    more to come later on - :-)
  • walterpaulbebirian
    Allison -

    how would you like me to let you know any of my answers to these questions?

    thank you!

    there are just so many different things in different categories that I have experienced as lessons since 1976 when I started my own business that I am not sure where to begin - and then there are the things that I have learned in both photography and art in the last 52 years as well - do they count as things that I have learned because art in itself is a whole lot of mistakes put together -



    Walter
  • Fantastic article - I am going through the same thing: laid off from a fantastic job and finding myself wanting to continue on this entrepreneurial path. I constantly wish I had someone telling me how to get to the end point. I look forward to learning more from you!
  • Hi Crystal,
    Thank you so much for the comment.
    I wish you the very best on this new path -- keep me posted!
    xo ~ Alli
  • Allison, I truly appreciate the way you are putting yourself "out there" and sharing with others. This program is going to rock!
  • Hi Lea!
    Thank you for the comment.
    I am so excited that you will be part of the program -- "see" you soon!
    xo ~Alli
  • Great to know that someone else started out with no experience and built a great business. You are a great role model for us, Allison!
  • Hi Yvonne,
    Thank you for your comment!
    Ya know....I think we all learn so much more from one another when we admit that sometimes we don't actually know everything!
    xo Alli
  • Allison, just having a chance to speak with you the other day about this topic and learning what you've done personally, really excites me to share this with others. I find that one of the biggest challenges most experts (those who have a tremendous amount of expertise in a particular skillset and have decided to build a business based upon that) is knowing many of the things you mention in your article. And, being able to know what to charge, when to charge it, how to get the full fee you are charging and not be a victim of customer "strong-arming" are some of the areas which will help the expert create a healthy and profitable business. In other words, one here they will be able to serve a lot more people...and make a lot more money as a result of providing that expert service to those people. Thank you for making your system available. Can't wait to read the testimonial letters you receive afterward.
  • Hi Bob,
    Thanks so much for this comment.
    I'm really looking forward to this -- in some ways I feel much of my career has led up to this program/system.
    I will keep you posted, my friend.
    ~ Alli
  • jeffhechtaz
    Sometimes it takes a lot of courage to admit you aren't so smart or don't know everything. Once you admit that to yourself, everything changes and anything is possible! Looking forward to hearing more...

    Great post, Allison.
  • Thanks, Jeff. Admitting stuff like that to myself and/or publicly actually makes everything else easier :)
    ~ Alli
blog comments powered by Disqus